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My Amazing Students Success Stories also known as #MASSS presents Elena Tommesani | Sculpture Artist

Anna Maria and Elena
Anna Maria and Elena

I’m sitting down next to my student Elena reading through her résumé when two little words catch my eye: Sculpture Artist.

If you guys didn’t know, my mom is a sculpture artist and has her work shown in a museum in Los Angeles, AMOCA.

I ask Elena, Do you make sculptures? Can I see a picture?

She tells me sure. Then, she hits a few keystrokes and I’m looking at the picture I’m sharing with you here.

Tape Person on the Bus by Elena Tommesani

Tape Person on the Bus by Elena Tommesani

I told her about my mom and my blog and I asked her if it was okay to do an article on her. She was happy to share her work with me and granted an exclusive interview.

I thought, gosh, this girl is so creative.

She later emailed me higher quality pictures. So here you are. Here’s our interview.

Meet Elena Tommesani | Sculpture Artist.

Elena has recently graduated Accademia delle Belle Arte in Bologna.  She started making sculptures together with a friend when she enrolled at University five years ago here in Bologna.

Her idea to make people out of scotch tape came after she and her friend made a recording of the actual sound tape makes when ripping it.

They asked themselves what it would be like to make a person out of tape and so the idea was formed.

After completing her thesis, she walked through town with her friends and her life size people and took some pictures in various settings — a fountain, a bus, laying down. She told me people would ask her if they could take pictures. I could only imagine!

Two Tape People on a Swingset by E. Tommesani

Two Tape People on a swings by E. Tommesani

What inspires you? I’ve always liked drawing ever since I was a young kid.

Why tape? My friend and I started and we were fascinated by the sounds tape makes when you pull it off. We even made an audio recording.

We were so impressed, we asked ourselves if we could take it a step further. We then decided to make the tape into a person with muscles. The structure was formed including the person with all of its defects.

Tape person lying down.

Tape person lying down. Perhaps this is Ophelia?

So it’s a collaboration? Yes, I made some of these together with my good friend Anna Maria Muscaridola.

How many have sculptures have you made? About 15.

Where are they?  Some are stored in my basement and a couple of them are at my father’s store.

Have you sold any? Yes. We have.

Are they hard or soft? Hard but you can also move them. I’d say they are structured.

Tape Person Swimming by Elena Tommesani

Tape Person Swimming by Elena Tommesani

I saw there was one in the water. Don’t they ruin? Only the foot is submerged in the water.

After the picture, we hung the tape person out to dry without any problems.

Is your friend the one in your facebook page? Yes.We have been friends since the first year of University. We are so different but we enjoy working together.

Now she is attending the Erasmus program in Barcelona. When she comes back, we look forward to working again together.

What are you working on? For now, we are just taking a break. We are celebrating the fact that we have received our degrees!

Do you name your sculptures? Yes. Actually. I’ve called one of them Ophelia. Here Elena tells me a funny story about Shakespeare’s Ophelia who dies yet, luckily, her Ophelia lives.

Talk to me about color. You wrote that color is very important to you. Yes. Only the last sculpture is about color. In my thesis I wanted to represent how color effects man in everything, not only aesthetically. For example, yellow can mean joy.

Other sculptures are based on transparency so you can see inside.

Breaking Through.

Breaking Through.

What I find interesting is that you talk about color but your work is transparent. Why is that? I don’t know why but all of my work has always been transparent.
Here we both smile because of how funny that seems, the contradiction of it all.

Maybe you have seen my man who was laying down lit by blue light? He is peaceful, she tells me.

Calming Blue Light

Calming Blue Light

My favorite is the one on the bus. Yes. Thank you. He’s thinking.

What was your response to the attention? My face went read and I was blushing.

Why did you bring him around with you? He’s not static. He’s travels.

I say goodbye telling her I think she has incredible talent and I that she will have enormous success as a sculpture artist.

She thanks me and I say goodbye to a very sweet, charming talented artist whose hair matches her eyes. She blushes and says,

Thank you. I’m happy.

If you would like more information on Elena’s sculptures, to see what she has available for sale or to commission a sculpture, please write e.tommesani@gmail.com

Updating My Status #blog #blogging @jbuliesblog

Hi friends. How are you?

Nice to see you.

I’ve been working hard and hardly working. Ha ha!

Such a beautiful building. The Istituto Salesiani a Bologna

Such a beautiful building. The Istituto Salesiani | Bologna

Basically, I have been taking care of myself best I know how. I’ve gotten back to work as a teacher and lecturer. I miss my school kids from last year although I’m happy to see them on facebook.

I’ve been teaching a super cool Adult Educational Graphics Course at the Salesiano School in Bologna and it’s going well. We are working on CVs and Resumes and a newsletter.

It’s been challenging and I keep pushing my students to their best, suggesting new ways of doing things. I’m really working hard on pushing the third dimension trying to get their designs to pop off the page. I like shades. That is shadows.

Little League Baseball treat when we were growing up.

Little League Baseball treat when we were growing up. Go Mike!

As we near towards the end of the course, I think of all the things I wish I could have taught them. We are really down to the wire. I’ve given them deadlines. What we did was first write a CV following European Educational Community Guidelines then I asked the students to find a cool graphics platform and tweak it into their own style.

Hope I’m making sense here.

One of the students found a site online that had some super cool resumes. BTW we call Résumés CVs in Europe. They also write Stage instead of Internship and it drives me mad. I also find that they were writing Mother Tongue Italian instead of Native Language is Italian.

I think we got some good results though and when I see them I am going to ask their permission to link them here to my blog so you guys can see them too.

I think this student did an exceptional job at coordinating her cover letter and resume in a professional way. It really shows off her talents.

I think this student did an excellent job at coordinating her cover letter and résumé in a professional way. It really shows off her talents.

What really surprised me as I got to know this class better was their hidden talents while reading their resumes. I discovered that one of my talented graphic design students has been featured twice in the Resto del Carlino, one of Italy’s national newspapers, for designs she has done.

Another girl made an amazing sculpture of a guy sitting on a train made completely out of scotch tape!

She showed me a picture. I was shocked that she didn’t have a website or publisher. I’m going to get the picture and share it for her here so you guys can see it too.

As far as my personal life goes, I’ve been working on a Little League Baseball Website for my sons in Italian and its store too.  It’s challenging to figure out statistics, times, classifications, and stats and all.

Luckily I grew up watching my brother play with my mom in the score box and a microphone shouting, Go Mike! I remember most of all growing up on the little league field that was once an onion field and now a McDonalds, that we always had the best snacks, like Red Licorice and Abba Zabbas.

I’m super sad that I wont be able to make it to my high school reunion as the cost of the tickets for my family is exhorbatant from Italy to California. It’s a shame.

On a good note, I have a great vacation planned here. I cannot fathom complaining about vacationing in Italy.

ha ha.

For my loyal blog readers who have followed my regardless of if I post or not, I thank you from the bottom of my heart. Blogging continues to be a muse to me as well as you do too.

Thank you for following and have a nice day.

Julie

I loved words. I love to sing them and speak them and even now, I must admit, I have fallen into the joy of writing them.— Anne Rice

Francesca Michielin :: Winner of Italy’s X Factor

Maybe it’s because I spend so much time with kids that this got to me.

I’m not sure. Usually, our family doesn’t get too involved in television shows but this is one we truly enjoyed. If you haven’t seen it, it’s a program where finalists are chosen and there’s a winner. Fairly simple.

Only the catch is that I believe that nothing inspires people more than music. Songs make your soul sing.

In this X factor, we all had our favorites. Outstanding performances were made by all. Over 50,000 people tried out! We liked Antonella alot as well as Nicole. My husband loved the Moderni. Francesca did the best and I was so happy when she won. What a doll. She’s so talented. I love how relaxed she is on the stage, then she just turns into another person when singing.

Here are some video’s I found. Hope you like them.

Congratulations Francesca for winning Italy’s X Factor. You are a star.

ㄥ❀∨モ criticism ♥

Be your own critic~there are enough people out there to be mean to you. Be nice to yourself ¸¸.·☆

A couple of things on my mind

that I’d like to share today that have to do with reading, writing, creativity and comments.

I am thankful for the positive comments and encouragement I get from people who read my blog. When I started off blogging, the idea was to share. I have written since I can remember.

In fact, I remember a time in my life where I would fill my days writing.

Everyone is a Critic

When I made the decision to share my words with the world it wasn’t based on a self satisfying idea to could help one person out there. It was more the idea that I wanted to learn how to blog. I thought of instead of writing in my journal, I’d do it online.

It’s actually a bit of a risk, if you ask me, putting yourself out on the line to be judged by your peers.

Mimi Weddell

►ㄥife is nσt abσut waiting fσr the storms to pass. it's abσut ℓearning hσw tσ dance in the rain.►

I like the idea of learning by doing.

It’s one thing to think about doing something and a whole other ball game to put yourself out there and actually do something.

—What inspired this post was seeing the amazing things that are going on in your lives. I feel each one of you reading this is successful in your own way.

I’ve seen my friends overcome numerous obstacles to achieve their goals. I’ll give you some examples. One friend overcame the death of her parents at a young age to go forth and have a beautiful big family of her own.

She figured it out. Others have dreamt of becoming writers, business people, dads, teachers, artists, musicians, you name it. They haven’t given up and they are doing it—pursuing their dreams. Doing it. Loving it.

I have a friend who is scared of making a change in her life. Her entire family is relocating to a new city with completely new people, streets, smells, schools, every little thing in her life will be new.

But she did it. She said yes to life with the insecurity that comes from the future and not knowing what it would hold. Good for her.

Life is a journey. ♥ Set yourself up to play a winning game.

Another fantastic woman is traveling the world on her own. Such courage. Others dealing with heartbreak, love, life, raising families and work. They are figuring it out.

The more people who read my blog, of course, there seems to be always someone who doesn’t like it.

That leaves the question to me of how to deal with it. I either forgive, forget, overlook, pretend they aren’t there, or accept it.

Between saying and doing is an ocean of difference.

While I was on vacation for a week and didn’t have internet access I found myself missing my online community. I have made friends with unbelievable people I wouldn’t have otherwise met. We share videos, stories, pictures of our lives, you name it. For me being so far from my family I find it a great way of knowing what they are up to.

I have also met people from all over the world. I love that. Our world truly is getting smaller. So on a spiritual path to enlightenment, I believe we are all interconnected. All of our actions effect each other.

I’m working through this confusion with the help of my friends and so thankful for them.

How do you deal with the critics? Is it better just to not share?

Thanks for visiting, commenting and a very special thank you for people who bid and have purchased my artwork. I hope it smiles at you every time you look at it.

You an also buy my art at my online stores here and here.

46 Ways to be a Better Person.

It almost always seems impossible until it's done. ♡

It almost always seems impossible until it's done.x♡o

Thank you for stopping by my blog. Here’s a quick list that will get your started on having a nicer day now. Good luck and let me know how it goes.

1. Take a deep breath now, hold it as long as you can. count to 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, release, 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 ~ and now another.

2. OK, two more deep breaths. Relax.

3. Concentrate on this word <<oooaahhhhmmm>> and close your eyes and take another two deep breaths, in through your nose out through your mouth.

4. Meditate. Concentrate on your third eye and just be peaceful. You can stop reading this! It’s okay!

5. Slow down. Try moving slowly.

6. Start each day as Gandhi did: Be the change you want to see.

7. Look for ways to help people.

8. Treat yourself great.

9. Be your own friend.

10. Go to the mirror and make funny faces.

11. Make yourself and/or a friend a nice cup of tea or coffee.

12. Take a long walk without music or distractions.

13. Clean. Go left to right, it works.

14. Be young in your heart.

15. Hug a tree.

16. Jump on one leg. Now the other. Do this in your mind’s eye. Or for real.

17. Spin like a child with your eyes closed. Do this in your mind’s eye. Or for real.

18. Hug someone. Even yourself.

19. Next time you see someone on facebook that’s down, get involved. Try sending links, messages.  Or, how about a phone call?

20. Believe in miracles. :) I do.

21. Be inspirational.

20. Believe in miracles. I do.

22. Listen to the next sound you hear.

23. Push yourself to be a little bit better.

24. Count to ten before reacting. {or better yet, just let it slide.}

25. Pet an animal.

26. Turn off the tv.

27. Sell something on ebay.

28. Give something away to charity.

29. Treat yourself to a day spa.

30. Take a nice long relaxing bath or shower.

31. Bake.

32. Organize your files.

33. Make a list of three things you don’t want to do and then do them.

34. Eat well. How’s a salad sound for your next meal? A big one!

35. Exercise.

36. Take a risk with love.

37. Write a message on someone’s facebook wall saying thank you for being there.

38. Enjoy this moment.

39. You can reprogram your mind to believe anything you want it to.

40. Shine the light that God has given you.

40. Shine On!

40. Shine the light that God has given you.

41. Tell someone you love them.

42. No matter what your age, dream ~ even big if you’d like.

43. Remember a moment when you were blissful. Hold on to it.

44. Accept yourself for exactly who you are.

45. Send a REAL letter in the mail.

46. Give yourself a little break.

Thanks for reading and have a great day. I believe in you. I do.

In the comment section, I’d like to know what you can hear, smell and feel in this exact moment. What is around you? I can hear  boys playing, the washing machine spinning and a distant car passing.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

Hi friends. Welcome back. New visitors welcome.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

I started out the New Year with gusto thankful that I have been able to laugh. It’s a nice thing. I don’t know if you believe in making a resolutions because it seems that whenever you make one they only last a while.

I prefer making changes slowly, one step and a time, then implementing them into my life—much like getting into a swimming pool. I’ve always liked to take my time.

For some reason, I feel full of hope, full of possibility. Life is good.

I thinking writing down goals in specific terms is important. I know that when I have a list in front of me I tend to get it done. That does not exclude the fact that I at time goes for long periods of time without lists and still life goes on, doesn’t it?

For the sake of adventure, I’m going to attempt to make sense out of my goals and write them down. Here they are in specific terms.

My 2012 New Years Goals are to

1. Obtain a healthy balance of body, mind and spirit.

2. Continue with my walks. Do yoga, stretching and bike rides on a regular basis.  I love how walking clears my head. The most difficult part is just getting out the door, but I’ve noticed how simple life is on a bike. There are no keys and no cell. You just get the bike and ride.

3. Spirit. I belive in the power of prayer. I’ve also been doing some really nice healing meditaitons I found online. I love the way it calms me. I usually google Guided Healing Meditations.

4. Mind. The only way I know how to keep my mind healthy is to focus. I focus by pushing my limits. I love a clean house and that keeps me busy going room to room.

I’m also working hard on my house. I’ve made a list of things I need to accomplish around here, being an strong animated restructured house and all, and I’m just tackling it. We’ve been here now for quite some time so most of the hard work is out of the way. Still, I enjoy keeping it in order and that takes time and dedication.

Well, as always I thank you for visiting. I pray this post finds you lovely, lucky and in love.

Julie

Starting 2012 with wild abandonment.

Please be patient while my video is being processed.

Is your blog bloggalicious?

The wind longs to blow in your hair.

If someone is meant to be in your life, they will make sure they are. It is really that simple.

I saw a friend the other day. She asked me how I was. As a joke I said,

Haven’t you read my status update? Ba du dum.

We know we are in trouble when every real conversation we have ends with I’ll send you a link.

Are bloggers the new journalists?

Now that I’m a blogger, I approach life a little bit differently. When I go out and about I notice more details. I started to talk to people and I’ve started to listen to them as well. I’m thinking I’m just basically scouting for stories so I don’t run out of things to write about.

Lord knows it’s hard to get me to be quiet so I don’t know why I would run out of ideas. The point is it’s time for me to zip the gab smacker known as my mouth and start listening.

I’m learning this from a blogger friend of mine. The way it works is this. You offer your story and then you ask to hear their story. So, letting caution to the wind, I say, hey, why not? I’ll give it a shot.

Is your blog bloggalicious? Is your life life—alicous? Is your booty bootilicous?

Do you start every real conversation lately with I read your blog post or I saw your video on line?

Here’s a good one. When someone says they read your blog, do you sort of smile inwardly and think yeah, but did you leave a comment?

What do you think? People are reacting to me as if I were a writer. Now because I’m publishing a blog all of the sudden I’m a writer?

I’ll whip out some stories in the garage that I’ve kept for the last twenty years if you want to know that every day I’m a writer. The difference is that I’m now ready to share.

Did she just write what I think she just wrote?

Where’d I put the darn answer?

Joy. us.

Let your heart sing. Smile with your eyes.

I’m thinking Oscar buzz peeps.

I’m thinking Oprah’s on the phone spectacular.

I’m thinking out of control spectacular.

Did any of this make sense? Beuller? Beuller? Am I writing to myself again? Where’s my editor? Where’s my teacher? Anyone checking this for factual information?

Can I let this go? Will I let this go? When? Now. .•*¨`*•♫

Can I let this go? Will I let this go? When? Now. .•*¨`*•♫

If any of you are returning visitors here to my site I’ve been working hard updating it. If you are new here, well then *welcome*.

I’ve learnt a ton doing this blog about peer to peer marketing and overcoming fears. It’s actually increased my confidence as a writer. What do you think? Leave me a comment.

My friends have texted me that they find my blog and what I’m doing over here inspiring. If I had a dollar for every time.. ha ha ha.  That’s a good one.

I keep thinking about my blogger friend in Singapore who told me in a comment she thinks I’m technically gifted. It just makes me laugh.

I don’t know what happens but sometimes I am blogging and I get in a total programming zone where I have to get from point A to Z and until it’s there I don’t stop.

I’m super satisfied that I linked to five awesome charities in my right column. The one I hold dearest to me is for my high school friend Kelli, Living in Grace. I also made myself laugh in my Services tab up above. You’ll like it if you click on it. Want a link? ;)

As always hope this post finds you lovely, lucky and in love.

Julie

31 things I am thankful for .¸.♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸.¸.♪♫•*

This post is dedicated to a girl I met blogging who actually took the time to write 31 days of thanks in 31 days. I have absolutely no patience to write for 31 days. I’m like a kid like that. I always want dessert first so I’m just going to knock it out in one post.

31 things I am thankful for .¸.♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸.¸.♪♫•*

1. God and Life. I wake up every day and for that I’m thankful. I wake up with the hope and possibility of what that new day will bring.

2. The New Day. Remember when you were little and you learned your first little songs? When I open the window curtains in the morning and let the sunshine, many of these songs run through my mind. I like Rise and Shine.

3. Coffee. I was addicted to coffee when working in Corporate USA. I got up to six a day. Then I cut back to decaf. Then, when pregnant as a self challenge I quit all together to see if I could live with out it. I did for about eight years. Then I realized it’s okay to have a little bit. Now I will have maybe one cup or two max a day. I enjoy my coffee.

4. My sons watching cartoons in English on Italy on a Saturday morning. Sometimes they wrestle, sometimes they fight, but they always get in some good hugging time.

5. My friends on facebook who are full of funny and interesting links. I tell you the stuff they send around of facebook is at times entertaining, at times political, at times downright sad. I’m still thankful to be able to read it.

6. My blog. I love having a blog and a creative outlet.

7. My blog readers. I’m so thankful to see people stop in here to read my silly thoughts. Hello! Thanks for visiting.

8. My husband. I love my husband.

9. My family. I dream about them, I talk to them. I miss them. I’m on the floor, on my knees grateful to have them. xo

10. My friends. I’m so thankful to have you in my life.

11. The people who have clicked like on my blog and have supported me by doing so.

12. My first blog comment. I wrote an entire book about the subject of overcoming fear to set up my blog. It’s like when you are a public speaker and you have to over come fears of doing so. Then you get up there and do it and the rest sort of flows. I’m definitely over my beginning stage fright although still I’m not so comfortable with videos.

13. The girl who I’ve dedicated this post to. It’s funny how blogging changes your life. You might set up your blog because you want to share recipes. My might set it up to share pictures, to share home projects. There are millions of reasons to blog. The one unexpected blessing I’ve got out of this blog are the people I’ve got to know on a deep level through blogging.

I’ve seen some things in my in box that have literally made my heart skip a beat. For example the day this girl’s husband decided to rework my ad and make it look like I was a professional artist. It was stunning! He did this out of the goodness of his heart! I’m so thankful for these gestures of kindness.

14. My best friend. I’m so thankful I have a best friend. I didn’t meet my best friend until I was 20. She’s the best in the world and I love her with all of my heart. She knows this.

15. My relationship with my sister. The girl is amazing. She was a year and a half when I was born. If you know her, it’s most likely you admire her. Not only is she gorgeous, she was born with these golden angel like curls that look like sunshine is flowing through her.

When I was born I think I stole a little bit of her spotlight and I’ve been spending my life trying to make it up to her. There is no one I admire more. No one.

16. Food. I don’t like to describe myself as a foodie but I’m so thankful that I married one. Let’s put it this way, when we met he was fine wine and steak, I was hot dogs and Pabst. I’m thankful to have a husband who loves good food and wine. It’s awesome.

17. Education. I love learning. I truly do. Whenever I get a chance I look for opportunities to learn. My favorite resource lately is itunes university. I like virtually clicking on all of the campuses and discovering lectures at the best universities in the world for free in my living room.

18. Books. I am thankful for the books and their authors who have greatly influenced my life. I feel like their words and the time they took to write them have entered into my soul. It sounds far fetched but reading Hemingway, or I don’t know, I have a list of authors I love on my right side bar, have all become part of me.

19. My house. I’m so thankful for having a cozy home. Yesterday I had a friend over here and she stopped in and took it all in and just kept complimenting me. To me it’s every day. To her it was beautiful. I just laughed and giggled. I found it funny that she like it. I think it’s the fire that’s lit that creates a warm atmosphere in the winter months.

20. Our little cat. Oh, how we love our little cat! She’s been with us for a long time, but she’s a good kitty. Aren’t cats strange animals? Ours always has the same expression of boredom. She likes to plop her neck across my forehead while I’m sleeping and purr loudly. It’s the sweetest thing.

21. My art. I’ve been painting, giving away and selling for quite a while now. I set up an art shop online and have had 2,000 visitors and a few purchases. I love having my art up for sale. More than that, I love being able to create paintings. I’m thankful that God gave me a mom who had art she painted all over our walls growing up.

22. Our neighbors. I love and am grateful for our neighbors. People ask if I know my neighbors. Ha! Do I know them. We swap fresh vegis and plants. We watch each other’s kids. We have coffee and we chat.

23. Living on a safe street. About 200 yards from my house is a busy street. I’m thankful that we live on a street where cars rarely pass and my kids can get dirty finding worms.

24. Living in the country. I often teach a class where we do comparisons on life in the country verses life in the city. We like to say what we like better. I’ve lived in a city and I’ve lived in the country. To be honest, they both have positive aspects but for the moment with kids, I love living out in the country.

25. My country walks and bike rides. I’m thankful for the time I spend just walking. My mind is free to roam and somehow or another I seemed to always come back recharged.

26. Baseball. Baseball has been berry berry good to me. Nothing makes me happier than having the family together at a ball game. It’s so fun. I thank my sons afterwards every time for playing. I’m thankful they play.

27. Music. I can write an article. I can write a book. I can write a poem but I truly believe that nothing speaks right to the soul than a beautiful tune. When I find a song I like I can listen to it over and over again. I even think music has healing power.

28. Meditation. I have spent a lot of time meditating lately. I remember as a kid watching my uncle meditate and thinking it was really strange. I love how mediation has become part of my life.

29. Movies. I’m grateful for the creative souls and actors who have made movies. I love how a movie can transport you into another realm.

30. Electricity. I’m thankful that we live in a world where we have electricity that allows us the things we take for granted such as lights when it’s dark and television.

31. Water. I’m thankful that I have clean water running through my taps when one sixth of our world’s population doesn’t. In doing so, I urge you to be generous and donate time, effort or money to the families who desperately need water at this moment. The one that pops in my mind is the water bottle program Matt Damon has been promoting.

32. David Letterman. I knew could come up with one extra! He’s been my favorite tv program since I was 20.

33. My non stick pots and pans that I bought in USA. Oh! I forgot those. I’m thankful for those. Food doesn’t stick and they are easy to clean.

How about you? Did I overlook something? Let me know.

Much love and blessings to you. As always, I hope this post finds you lovely, lucky and in love.

Julie

Making it through the Christmas season with a smile.

I’m just going to say it.

It’s a lot of work being a mom. It’s a lot of work taking care of a house. I love it though. I don’t know about you but it’s non stop day after day cleaning, putting away, organizing, throwing away things you don’t need, buying things you do need.

Treat yourself a little bit extra nice today. xo

Treat yourself a little bit extra nice today. xo

I ran into a friend of mine at the grocery store yesterday. She’s a s super nice lady. Again, I find myself teary eyed like an idiot when people discover I’ve been fired from teaching at the public school system after eight years. They seem to want to fix it.

Strangely enough so did I! Until I realized God shut that door. It took me about six months of going back and banging my head until the light went on and I moved on.

It’s a grrrrrrrreat feeling to move forward. *Really!*

I’ve started working for myself as a freelance English teacher. I’m doing well. I’ve been contacted by quite a few people and things are looking up. I’m able to *pull off* Christmas for my gorgeous two boys.

That’s what I mean when I say it takes a lot of work to be a mom. I mean, you have to have that extra little bit of patience when you kid falls off his bike. You have to at times put your needs aside for the needs of others. If you do that too much, well, I risk exploding, so you have to do what you to do to make it through the day with a positive attitude.

I try to do things like eat well. Like fish and vegetables and stuff like that. I also like to get in a bike ride, yoga, or a long walk. Shopping is fun but I’m not a big shopper. I spend way too much time in the garage trying to figure out what to do with the things that accumulate so it makes it hard to buy more things.

I supposed I’m blessed in that way. I suppose! I’m not too sure. It’s all a balance act.

I also have a couple of strange thoughts that I don’t know if they belong to me or not. You can take them out of context if you’d like and copy and paste them on facebook and laugh at me, but I believe that sometimes it’s all a dream.

I believe that we have parallel lives. I believe we are all just holograms of ourselves. I believe we can control our destiny by choosing to think positive. I believe that if you look in the mirror and put on a smile even when you don’t feel like smiling, after about the tenth time, you are going to make yourself smile.

When I was a student at University I worked at the Clinique counter at Macy’s San Jose, as well as a computer store, but anyhow, my best friend and I worked together. One day we wanted to call in sick, so at the counter, we started putting on white make up, and making ourselves look sick.

We were laughing because we are goofy like that but after a while, we both ended up feeling sick.

I think the opposite is true too. If you put on a smile, after a while, you are going to feel a little bit happier.

That’s why I’m creating a little magical Christmas house for me and my family. It doesn’t include much BUT there are lights on the tree, there are candles and ornaments on the table. There is lavender in an angel vase. There is a Santa climbing up the balcony with twinkle lights. I listen to a lot of Christmas music. There are surprises for as many people as I can manage and there are chocolate chip cookies both in the fridge and freezer.

That’s the magic. It’s the best I can do but that’s about the most I can ask of myself.

Hope this holiday season is greeting you with love, lucky and happiness. If not, you can always try smiling in the mirror.

xo

Julie

What are your favorite Christmas tunes? I like Jingle Bells. My all time favorite is Silver Bells.