13 things I wish I knew before I started a blog.

1. That I would be so visible in all of the world wherever there is internet. For some reason I thought I was still speaking to my immediate friends.

Have a blessed day.

Have a blessed day.

2. That people could laugh at me if they wanted. Sometimes they do but I mostly get compliments, thank goodness.

3. That everyone uses their blogs however they want in different ways to represent their own style. Some blogs have comments, some have books, some have lists, some have videos. Each person can make their blog completely personalized.

4. That the blogger community is extremely supportive. If you need help with anything there are endless forums to help you answer your questions. Or, you can post a new one. I did and got tons of quick answers.

5. That words are important. And can save lives. Take for example:

Let’s eat Grandma! versus Let’s eat, Grandma!

Believe it or not, a lot of people find my blog by typing those words into google.

6. That some people make money with their blogs,

Smile. You're beautiful.

7. That it takes more time and dedication that I thought. But like most projects the more you put into it the more you get out of it.

8. That I ♥ blogging.

9. That 97 percent of people want to write a book.

10. What’s a widget. I thought a widget was that wooden triangle piece you slip under a door to hold it open. Boy was a surprised. I have since discovered that widgets are the spice of life. You can see all my widgets on my right column. They are things like being able to see your categories, most popular posts and facebook links.

Bike today. Yes please.

11. What’s a theme? Believe it or not, you get FREE themes. Themes are the overall looks of your site and you can choose whichever one suits you, just like a jacket.

You can even change as often as you want. I like mine for now but you never know. People love new looks. And it’s free.

12. That blogging would bring me increased confidence just like overcoming a fear.

14. That you would be reading this.

and just for fun, I’ll add another one. What would you add? What’s your number 14?

14. I wish I knew what social media was and how incredibly far reaching it is. I had seriously only heard the term social media at a garage sale buying a book.  Things you should look into are twitter, facebook and now pinterest.

I’m seriously in awe of the amount of times I see people in real life who have read my latest posts.

What about you? What are your favorite widgets? Why do you blog? Why don’t you blog? What are your favorite blogs and why?

As always, thanks for visiting and commenting. Nice to see you.

  1. Write down my goal in very specific terms.
  2. Practise visualisations daily.
  3. Stay positive and have an attitude of gratitude.
  4. Tell people about my goal repeatedly and publicly.
  5. Act as if I had already achieved it.
  6. Take massive action to make it happen.

Francesca Michielin :: Winner of Italy’s X Factor

Maybe it’s because I spend so much time with kids that this got to me.

I’m not sure. Usually, our family doesn’t get too involved in television shows but this is one we truly enjoyed. If you haven’t seen it, it’s a program where finalists are chosen and there’s a winner. Fairly simple.

Only the catch is that I believe that nothing inspires people more than music. Songs make your soul sing.

In this X factor, we all had our favorites. Outstanding performances were made by all. Over 50,000 people tried out! We liked Antonella alot as well as Nicole. My husband loved the Moderni. Francesca did the best and I was so happy when she won. What a doll. She’s so talented. I love how relaxed she is on the stage, then she just turns into another person when singing.

Here are some video’s I found. Hope you like them.

Congratulations Francesca for winning Italy’s X Factor. You are a star.

How to increase blog traffic – 10 tips and tricks from jbulie’s blog.

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If you want your blog or website to succeed, just love doing it. Easy.

I’m sharing with you what I’ve been doing over here to attract visitors and increase blog traffic.

Don’t believe the guys who say they get a million visitors a day. They are like kids in a candy shop, typing in numbers. Learn from doing first hand, and ask a blogger friend.

Here are the steps you can take to make your site grow.

1. Get to know your readers. Share.

Spend a lot of time looking at your stats feature and try to understand where your readers are coming from. A lot of my readers have become friends because I hound them on facebook. Thanks guys. A lot are new, welcome. I’ve also found having a stats counter installed helps.

I’ve learned that they come from all over the world and different backgrounds and ages.

2. Participate in comments and conversations.

One of the best ways of inviting visitors to your site participate in conversations in the comment sections of blogs you like reading. Ever since I started my blog, I’ve learned a great deal in the comments section of articles.

3. Write good content.

Wishing you flowers today.

Wishing you flowers today.

My highest ranked day was when I wrote a piece about motivation. You can read it by clicking here.

4. Write from the heart.

Talk as if you were speaking to a few good friends. Write about what you care about people are going to be supportive.

5. Make it a goal.

I have also made it a goal of mine to have a lot of visitors so in my free time, I look read as many articles I can on the subject.

6. Use your real voice.

When I write, I like to picture I’m either standing infront of my peers and explaining things simply. Or, I try to imagine I’m writing my sister or mom and telling them how simple it is to make a blog grow.

7. Enjoy

You guys might have noticed how much I love to play around with my readers. I don’t think anything is more boring then being serious. I don’t take myself so seriously. In fact, I like to find aspects of life that are a little bit off, and hone in on them.

8. Add extra value, go the extra mile.

The more you give, the more you receive. It’s so easy to get great feedback ~ just give of yourself.

You are one person writing, right? Well, there are lots of people reading so the ratio is just immense. Give of yourself and you get back so much from some many people.

9. Be inspiring

You can be inspiring, funny wonderful, full of life. If you don’t believe in yourself, well then I do! You can do it.

We all have the ability to push ourselves to learn and make our lives better. You can do it. I believe in you.

10. Pay it forward.

Without my visitors, I’d just be here talking to my cat. She’s a good listener, however. To pay it forward it’s super simple. Just hit the tweet button if you have twitter, or share on facebook by clicking the link below.

Thanks for visiting. I appreciate your comments.

ㄥ❀∨モ criticism ♥

Be your own critic~there are enough people out there to be mean to you. Be nice to yourself ¸¸.·☆

A couple of things on my mind

that I’d like to share today that have to do with reading, writing, creativity and comments.

I am thankful for the positive comments and encouragement I get from people who read my blog. When I started off blogging, the idea was to share. I have written since I can remember.

In fact, I remember a time in my life where I would fill my days writing.

Everyone is a Critic

When I made the decision to share my words with the world it wasn’t based on a self satisfying idea to could help one person out there. It was more the idea that I wanted to learn how to blog. I thought of instead of writing in my journal, I’d do it online.

It’s actually a bit of a risk, if you ask me, putting yourself out on the line to be judged by your peers.

Mimi Weddell

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I like the idea of learning by doing.

It’s one thing to think about doing something and a whole other ball game to put yourself out there and actually do something.

—What inspired this post was seeing the amazing things that are going on in your lives. I feel each one of you reading this is successful in your own way.

I’ve seen my friends overcome numerous obstacles to achieve their goals. I’ll give you some examples. One friend overcame the death of her parents at a young age to go forth and have a beautiful big family of her own.

She figured it out. Others have dreamt of becoming writers, business people, dads, teachers, artists, musicians, you name it. They haven’t given up and they are doing it—pursuing their dreams. Doing it. Loving it.

I have a friend who is scared of making a change in her life. Her entire family is relocating to a new city with completely new people, streets, smells, schools, every little thing in her life will be new.

But she did it. She said yes to life with the insecurity that comes from the future and not knowing what it would hold. Good for her.

Life is a journey. ♥ Set yourself up to play a winning game.

Another fantastic woman is traveling the world on her own. Such courage. Others dealing with heartbreak, love, life, raising families and work. They are figuring it out.

The more people who read my blog, of course, there seems to be always someone who doesn’t like it.

That leaves the question to me of how to deal with it. I either forgive, forget, overlook, pretend they aren’t there, or accept it.

Between saying and doing is an ocean of difference.

While I was on vacation for a week and didn’t have internet access I found myself missing my online community. I have made friends with unbelievable people I wouldn’t have otherwise met. We share videos, stories, pictures of our lives, you name it. For me being so far from my family I find it a great way of knowing what they are up to.

I have also met people from all over the world. I love that. Our world truly is getting smaller. So on a spiritual path to enlightenment, I believe we are all interconnected. All of our actions effect each other.

I’m working through this confusion with the help of my friends and so thankful for them.

How do you deal with the critics? Is it better just to not share?

Thanks for visiting, commenting and a very special thank you for people who bid and have purchased my artwork. I hope it smiles at you every time you look at it.

You an also buy my art at my online stores here and here.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

Hi friends. Welcome back. New visitors welcome.

6 Simple Rules to live by: Be happy, be nice, be a leader, be organized, be a lifelong learner and be healthy.

I started out the New Year with gusto thankful that I have been able to laugh. It’s a nice thing. I don’t know if you believe in making a resolutions because it seems that whenever you make one they only last a while.

I prefer making changes slowly, one step and a time, then implementing them into my life—much like getting into a swimming pool. I’ve always liked to take my time.

For some reason, I feel full of hope, full of possibility. Life is good.

I thinking writing down goals in specific terms is important. I know that when I have a list in front of me I tend to get it done. That does not exclude the fact that I at time goes for long periods of time without lists and still life goes on, doesn’t it?

For the sake of adventure, I’m going to attempt to make sense out of my goals and write them down. Here they are in specific terms.

My 2012 New Years Goals are to

1. Obtain a healthy balance of body, mind and spirit.

2. Continue with my walks. Do yoga, stretching and bike rides on a regular basis.  I love how walking clears my head. The most difficult part is just getting out the door, but I’ve noticed how simple life is on a bike. There are no keys and no cell. You just get the bike and ride.

3. Spirit. I belive in the power of prayer. I’ve also been doing some really nice healing meditaitons I found online. I love the way it calms me. I usually google Guided Healing Meditations.

4. Mind. The only way I know how to keep my mind healthy is to focus. I focus by pushing my limits. I love a clean house and that keeps me busy going room to room.

I’m also working hard on my house. I’ve made a list of things I need to accomplish around here, being an strong animated restructured house and all, and I’m just tackling it. We’ve been here now for quite some time so most of the hard work is out of the way. Still, I enjoy keeping it in order and that takes time and dedication.

Well, as always I thank you for visiting. I pray this post finds you lovely, lucky and in love.

Julie

Starting 2012 with wild abandonment.

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Twitter Facebook Faceoff ► Which one do you prefer? #ff @jbuliesblog

Hello!

I’m thinking about my friends clicking in here from all over the world. How awesome is the world wide web?

Today I’m talking about twitter and how hard it is to understand as least for someone like me.

Please tweet or pin. Thanks!

Please tweet or pin. Thanks!

I’ve had some great great comments in my facebook. Facebook rules by the way ~ twitter, well, it’s new all new to me. ~ Go facebook, go!

I got comments about how to use twitter since it’s such an enigma for me. David Letterman figured it out by getting a laptop and one of his techies to turn on his twitter page so he can update it during the show.

If David Letterman can do use twitter, certainly I can do it too, right?

Are you like me? Curious about new technology?

Keep a journal. Really. It's lovely.

Keep a journal. Really. It's lovely.

First step. I tried to google twitter tips. You know what you get? More questionable information.

Here are jbulie’s blogs, that’s me, @jbuliesblog. Please follow me on twitter.

Top ten reasons why I prefer facebook to twitter.

1) Because I can’t figure twitter out.

2) Because one of my favorite artists, Nev, has about 22,000 twitter followers, so obviously, he rules.

3) I added a ‘twitter’ expert to my friends list and tried to follow his instructions. He’s on my facebook account, check him out, 21 year old millionaire. Really. ;)

4) Need to fork out cash to automatically to add friends.

5) Nearly all articles I have read about twitter say how people don’t like twitter.

6) Celebrities are thriving on twitter. I love celebrities. I’m following them all. I can’t figure out twitter. I’m not a celebrity. Let’s do the math A + B = C No twitter followers over here, yet!

Yes. Please.

Inspired choices. Yes. Please.

7) Writer fell asleep. No number seven. Shout out to Apple and the ipad.

*8) The boy genius expert advised me to use his software to add all followers of a famous person, well, there is no add all followers button. I can’t even believe I spent time looking for it. Can I have my two minutes back?

9) Someone out there knows how it works. Now I am back to square one. I know my friends on facebook say leave it alone, but I cannot deny it is a big presence in social media.

I’m no social media expert, and in fact, I’m going back to being a mom and wife. It’s much more satisfying. Lots of hugs and kisses, and unexpected words.

Your turn. Going the extra mile here kids.

11) What is your take? Do you like twitter? Do you use twitter? Is it basically another social media network? Is it a cell phone application? The people who are bloggers with lots of twitter followers, do you think they did it by using automatic applications that tweet for them?

As always, thanks for following. I ♥ my readers. You guys are awesome. Hope your day is beautiful and filled with love.

31 things I am thankful for .¸.♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸.¸.♪♫•*

This post is dedicated to a girl I met blogging who actually took the time to write 31 days of thanks in 31 days. I have absolutely no patience to write for 31 days. I’m like a kid like that. I always want dessert first so I’m just going to knock it out in one post.

31 things I am thankful for .¸.♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸.¸.♪♫•*

1. God and Life. I wake up every day and for that I’m thankful. I wake up with the hope and possibility of what that new day will bring.

2. The New Day. Remember when you were little and you learned your first little songs? When I open the window curtains in the morning and let the sunshine, many of these songs run through my mind. I like Rise and Shine.

3. Coffee. I was addicted to coffee when working in Corporate USA. I got up to six a day. Then I cut back to decaf. Then, when pregnant as a self challenge I quit all together to see if I could live with out it. I did for about eight years. Then I realized it’s okay to have a little bit. Now I will have maybe one cup or two max a day. I enjoy my coffee.

4. My sons watching cartoons in English on Italy on a Saturday morning. Sometimes they wrestle, sometimes they fight, but they always get in some good hugging time.

5. My friends on facebook who are full of funny and interesting links. I tell you the stuff they send around of facebook is at times entertaining, at times political, at times downright sad. I’m still thankful to be able to read it.

6. My blog. I love having a blog and a creative outlet.

7. My blog readers. I’m so thankful to see people stop in here to read my silly thoughts. Hello! Thanks for visiting.

8. My husband. I love my husband.

9. My family. I dream about them, I talk to them. I miss them. I’m on the floor, on my knees grateful to have them. xo

10. My friends. I’m so thankful to have you in my life.

11. The people who have clicked like on my blog and have supported me by doing so.

12. My first blog comment. I wrote an entire book about the subject of overcoming fear to set up my blog. It’s like when you are a public speaker and you have to over come fears of doing so. Then you get up there and do it and the rest sort of flows. I’m definitely over my beginning stage fright although still I’m not so comfortable with videos.

13. The girl who I’ve dedicated this post to. It’s funny how blogging changes your life. You might set up your blog because you want to share recipes. My might set it up to share pictures, to share home projects. There are millions of reasons to blog. The one unexpected blessing I’ve got out of this blog are the people I’ve got to know on a deep level through blogging.

I’ve seen some things in my in box that have literally made my heart skip a beat. For example the day this girl’s husband decided to rework my ad and make it look like I was a professional artist. It was stunning! He did this out of the goodness of his heart! I’m so thankful for these gestures of kindness.

14. My best friend. I’m so thankful I have a best friend. I didn’t meet my best friend until I was 20. She’s the best in the world and I love her with all of my heart. She knows this.

15. My relationship with my sister. The girl is amazing. She was a year and a half when I was born. If you know her, it’s most likely you admire her. Not only is she gorgeous, she was born with these golden angel like curls that look like sunshine is flowing through her.

When I was born I think I stole a little bit of her spotlight and I’ve been spending my life trying to make it up to her. There is no one I admire more. No one.

16. Food. I don’t like to describe myself as a foodie but I’m so thankful that I married one. Let’s put it this way, when we met he was fine wine and steak, I was hot dogs and Pabst. I’m thankful to have a husband who loves good food and wine. It’s awesome.

17. Education. I love learning. I truly do. Whenever I get a chance I look for opportunities to learn. My favorite resource lately is itunes university. I like virtually clicking on all of the campuses and discovering lectures at the best universities in the world for free in my living room.

18. Books. I am thankful for the books and their authors who have greatly influenced my life. I feel like their words and the time they took to write them have entered into my soul. It sounds far fetched but reading Hemingway, or I don’t know, I have a list of authors I love on my right side bar, have all become part of me.

19. My house. I’m so thankful for having a cozy home. Yesterday I had a friend over here and she stopped in and took it all in and just kept complimenting me. To me it’s every day. To her it was beautiful. I just laughed and giggled. I found it funny that she like it. I think it’s the fire that’s lit that creates a warm atmosphere in the winter months.

20. Our little cat. Oh, how we love our little cat! She’s been with us for a long time, but she’s a good kitty. Aren’t cats strange animals? Ours always has the same expression of boredom. She likes to plop her neck across my forehead while I’m sleeping and purr loudly. It’s the sweetest thing.

21. My art. I’ve been painting, giving away and selling for quite a while now. I set up an art shop online and have had 2,000 visitors and a few purchases. I love having my art up for sale. More than that, I love being able to create paintings. I’m thankful that God gave me a mom who had art she painted all over our walls growing up.

22. Our neighbors. I love and am grateful for our neighbors. People ask if I know my neighbors. Ha! Do I know them. We swap fresh vegis and plants. We watch each other’s kids. We have coffee and we chat.

23. Living on a safe street. About 200 yards from my house is a busy street. I’m thankful that we live on a street where cars rarely pass and my kids can get dirty finding worms.

24. Living in the country. I often teach a class where we do comparisons on life in the country verses life in the city. We like to say what we like better. I’ve lived in a city and I’ve lived in the country. To be honest, they both have positive aspects but for the moment with kids, I love living out in the country.

25. My country walks and bike rides. I’m thankful for the time I spend just walking. My mind is free to roam and somehow or another I seemed to always come back recharged.

26. Baseball. Baseball has been berry berry good to me. Nothing makes me happier than having the family together at a ball game. It’s so fun. I thank my sons afterwards every time for playing. I’m thankful they play.

27. Music. I can write an article. I can write a book. I can write a poem but I truly believe that nothing speaks right to the soul than a beautiful tune. When I find a song I like I can listen to it over and over again. I even think music has healing power.

28. Meditation. I have spent a lot of time meditating lately. I remember as a kid watching my uncle meditate and thinking it was really strange. I love how mediation has become part of my life.

29. Movies. I’m grateful for the creative souls and actors who have made movies. I love how a movie can transport you into another realm.

30. Electricity. I’m thankful that we live in a world where we have electricity that allows us the things we take for granted such as lights when it’s dark and television.

31. Water. I’m thankful that I have clean water running through my taps when one sixth of our world’s population doesn’t. In doing so, I urge you to be generous and donate time, effort or money to the families who desperately need water at this moment. The one that pops in my mind is the water bottle program Matt Damon has been promoting.

32. David Letterman. I knew could come up with one extra! He’s been my favorite tv program since I was 20.

33. My non stick pots and pans that I bought in USA. Oh! I forgot those. I’m thankful for those. Food doesn’t stick and they are easy to clean.

How about you? Did I overlook something? Let me know.

Much love and blessings to you. As always, I hope this post finds you lovely, lucky and in love.

Julie

Life in a worldwide economy.

Hello friends. I’m interested in how our world is changing now that we have the internet so I read, get informed, take notes and share. I recently came across a great talk I think is packed with valuable information.

Do you ever wonder where your jeans come from? I watched a lecture online from Duke University on itunes U and saw a brilliant talk by a man called David Brady. I took notes that I’m sharing with you here.

Mr. Brady calls it a commodity chain.  He uses the example of your jeans by asking the question Where do your jeans come from?

Basically, a store gets their jeans from a buyer who buys  them from several factories.

For example, one buyer might by from a company in Mexico, another from China.

Not too long ago, Levis jeans, used to be produced in the United States. Now, they are contracted in the Dominican Republic.

It’s a combination of resources. They get their thread from South Carolina. They get their cotton from Texas.

The cotton is assembled in Haiti. Then it is sent back to the Dominican Republic for stone washing and fading.  Then the jeans are sent on a big container ship to Miami and finally to Walmart.

This same jeans’ buyer might also be using a Taiwanese company who also manufacturers in China, where the denim where the cotton comes from  is from India. The thread and denim come from China. It’s an amazing matrix, says Mr. Brady.

Goods and services are now provided faster and cheaper with an integration of more people.

It’s only since about 1970s that our lives have really changed and become what’s called a global economy. They made a floating dollar meaning that it was no longer attached to gold. When banks were first established, every dollar had real gold attached to it. That is no longer the case, hence a floating dollar.

In the old days they used ships to send things, it took a long time.

Nowadays, we use the internet and airplanes. With the internet, information is available immediately.

According to this Lecture, traditional media outlets are way behind the game, for example, CNN is telling us what the bloggers are reporting.

With twitter, you can have the latest information on any subject that interests you simply by typing a hash key # before the word you are interested in into the search box. For example, if you want to know what’s going on say for the floods in Italy and how you can help by donating to the red cross, type #cinqueterre to see how they are dealing with flood relief into the twitter search box.

What is diffusion?

Diffusion is the active dissemination of products, practice, policy or a set of values.

This also creates an interdependence meaning there is a two way street in an internet culture.

What is Internet Culture?

Internet culture means the flow of products, people and ideas. Where there is internet, culture, ideas, and awareness can be quickly spread.

For example,  India is now watching TV and making movies. Iran is having elections. China is exporting toys. US is importing beef from Brazil.

What’s interesting to see is the consequences. Sadly, when there are massive flows of people, there is also an increase of disease.

Life expectancy changes.

Economic Growth changes.

LIfe Expectancy Chart thx to D.Brady. How long will you live?

China and India have massive economic growth and represent half the world’s populations.

Where is the dilemma? Sadly, the bottom billion isn’t growing. It’s a puzzle. Sub Sahara Africa, there are no jobs and few economic opportunities.

The answer includes education

Take the example of a school without chalk, where nobody reads, kids have to only memorize and repeat. The Minister of education says they need more engineers to compete in the global economy. In this case, the government doesn’t meet reality.

In a progressive market, the international government organizations need to come up with plans where their words and promises meet the real needs of the people. For example, Amnesty helps to fuel positive social changes.

Now, the European Union has become a big economy. It represents a  massive player and  has the highest worldwide consumption. It is multi ethnic and multi cultural.

Which contries are engaged in Trade
50 – 60 percent of the global economy is involved in trade now 89 percent in Asia, that used to be only 10 percent. Affluent democracies include US, Japan, Western Europe, US went from 15-20 percent trade to its current 30-40% in terms of trade. Japan relatively behind Europe and U.S.

Look how trade has risen over the last 30 years for Asia!

Foreign born people in the United States is 2006 was 12 percent where as in 1970s it was 6 percent. Europe has increased foreign born 4 percent foreign born to now 10%. East Asia and the Pacific.

China in trouble because they depend so much on trade, that include layoffs where they feel the results of the economy.

The United Nations supports schooling and build schools for girls in developing countries.

Challenge of European Countries

Fertility rates are dropping in western Europe. In 1970, there were 2.4 children, now the fertility rate is 1.5. Put simply, people have fewer children. More children are needed to support an economy.

What does that mean? It means less and less kids are being born every year. To support and maintain our current economy, it is necessary to have a 2.1 children, according to this lecture.

This need has created a cultural conflict because of the need of immigrants to maintain population.

Which organizations are involved in worldwide economy?

The United Nations.The International Monetary Fund founded after WWII, US and Brittain got together and came up with the IMF in Washington DC with the goal of having stable exchange rates and  be a credit rating agency, so you could say what countries are having problems.

Then they started loaning. Post 1970 they said, we’ll give you the loan, stabilize your currency but your they installed conditions such as ensuring that they had to privatize energy. They loaned 16 billion dollars in 2008.

World Trade organization with protests since WWII.

It’s job is to be the judiciary for global trading, resolve disputes between countries. They are famous because they adjudicate the agreements and oversee them without getting involved.

The European Union

They say the European Union will one day be bigger than US and China. Now after two wars in the last century encouraged trade and migration of people in Europe, regional identity still exists but borders are open.

Iceland has been devastated perhaps the most because they poured all of their pension funds in mortgage-backed securities in US then did not controlling shares, and lost their backs. a Case of Portfolio investments.

To watch this lecture, I found it on itunes university, Duke University, entitled, David Brady – Understanding the Global Economy.

Making it through the Christmas season with a smile.

I’m just going to say it.

It’s a lot of work being a mom. It’s a lot of work taking care of a house. I love it though. I don’t know about you but it’s non stop day after day cleaning, putting away, organizing, throwing away things you don’t need, buying things you do need.

Treat yourself a little bit extra nice today. xo

Treat yourself a little bit extra nice today. xo

I ran into a friend of mine at the grocery store yesterday. She’s a s super nice lady. Again, I find myself teary eyed like an idiot when people discover I’ve been fired from teaching at the public school system after eight years. They seem to want to fix it.

Strangely enough so did I! Until I realized God shut that door. It took me about six months of going back and banging my head until the light went on and I moved on.

It’s a grrrrrrrreat feeling to move forward. *Really!*

I’ve started working for myself as a freelance English teacher. I’m doing well. I’ve been contacted by quite a few people and things are looking up. I’m able to *pull off* Christmas for my gorgeous two boys.

That’s what I mean when I say it takes a lot of work to be a mom. I mean, you have to have that extra little bit of patience when you kid falls off his bike. You have to at times put your needs aside for the needs of others. If you do that too much, well, I risk exploding, so you have to do what you to do to make it through the day with a positive attitude.

I try to do things like eat well. Like fish and vegetables and stuff like that. I also like to get in a bike ride, yoga, or a long walk. Shopping is fun but I’m not a big shopper. I spend way too much time in the garage trying to figure out what to do with the things that accumulate so it makes it hard to buy more things.

I supposed I’m blessed in that way. I suppose! I’m not too sure. It’s all a balance act.

I also have a couple of strange thoughts that I don’t know if they belong to me or not. You can take them out of context if you’d like and copy and paste them on facebook and laugh at me, but I believe that sometimes it’s all a dream.

I believe that we have parallel lives. I believe we are all just holograms of ourselves. I believe we can control our destiny by choosing to think positive. I believe that if you look in the mirror and put on a smile even when you don’t feel like smiling, after about the tenth time, you are going to make yourself smile.

When I was a student at University I worked at the Clinique counter at Macy’s San Jose, as well as a computer store, but anyhow, my best friend and I worked together. One day we wanted to call in sick, so at the counter, we started putting on white make up, and making ourselves look sick.

We were laughing because we are goofy like that but after a while, we both ended up feeling sick.

I think the opposite is true too. If you put on a smile, after a while, you are going to feel a little bit happier.

That’s why I’m creating a little magical Christmas house for me and my family. It doesn’t include much BUT there are lights on the tree, there are candles and ornaments on the table. There is lavender in an angel vase. There is a Santa climbing up the balcony with twinkle lights. I listen to a lot of Christmas music. There are surprises for as many people as I can manage and there are chocolate chip cookies both in the fridge and freezer.

That’s the magic. It’s the best I can do but that’s about the most I can ask of myself.

Hope this holiday season is greeting you with love, lucky and happiness. If not, you can always try smiling in the mirror.

xo

Julie

What are your favorite Christmas tunes? I like Jingle Bells. My all time favorite is Silver Bells.