
I have control over three things in m life: The thoughts I think, the images I visualize and the the actions I take. ¸¸.·☆
A couple of things on my mind
that I’d like to share today that have to do with reading, writing, creativity and comments.
I am thankful for the positive comments and encouragement I get from people who read my blog. When I started off blogging, the idea was to share. I have written since I can remember.
In fact, I remember a time in my life where I would fill my days writing.
When I made the decision to share my words with the world it wasn’t based on a self satisfying idea to could help one person out there. It was more the idea that I wanted to learn how to blog. I thought of instead of writing in my journal, I’d do it online.
It’s actually a bit of a risk, if you ask me, putting yourself out on the line to be judged by your peers.
I like the idea of learning by doing.
It’s one thing to think about doing something and a whole other ball game to put yourself out there and actually do something.
—What inspired this post was seeing the amazing things that are going on in your lives. I feel each one of you reading this is successful in your own way.
I’ve seen my friends overcome numerous obstacles to achieve their goals. I’ll give you some examples. One friend overcame the death of her parents at a young age to go forth and have a beautiful big family of her own.
She figured it out. Others have dreamt of becoming writers, business people, dads, teachers, artists, musicians, you name it. They haven’t given up and they are doing it — pursuing their dreams. Doing it. Loving it.
I have a friend who is scared of making a change in her life. Her entire family is relocating to a new city with completely new people, streets, smells, schools, every little thing in her life will be new.
But she did it. She said yes to life with the insecurity that comes from the future and not knowing what it would hold. Good for her.
Another fantastic woman is traveling the world on her own. Such courage. Others dealing with heartbreak, love, life, raising families and work. They are figuring it out.
The more people who read my blog, of course, there seems to be always someone who doesn’t like it.
That leaves the question to me of how to deal with it. I either forgive, forget, overlook, pretend they aren’t there, or accept it.
Between saying and doing is an ocean of difference.
While I was on vacation for a week and didn’t have internet access I found myself missing my online community. I have made friends with unbelievable people I wouldn’t have otherwise met. We share videos, stories, pictures of our lives, you name it. For me being so far from my family I find it a great way of knowing what they are up to.
I have also met people from all over the world. I love that. Our world truly is getting smaller. So on a spiritual path to enlightenment, I believe we are all interconnected. All of our actions effect each other.
I’m working through these questions with the help of my friends and I am so thankful for them.
How do you deal with the critics? Is it better just to not share? You are welcome to leave your comments.
Thank you for visiting.
As always I hope this post finds you lucky and in love.
Julie




































How to increase blog traffic — 10 tips and tricks from jbulie’s blog.
If you want your blog or website to succeed, just love doing it.
Even what you can’t imagine is possible. ♡ ㄥ❀∨モ
I’m sharing with you what I’ve been doing over here to attract visitors and increase blog traffic.
Don’t believe the people who say they get a million visitors a day. They are like kids in a candy shop, typing in numbers. Learn from doing first hand, and ask a blogger friend.
Here are the steps you can take to make your site grow.
1. Get to know your readers. Share.
Spend a lot of time looking at your stats feature and try to understand where your readers are coming from. A lot of my readers have become friends. Thanks guys. A lot are new, welcome. I’ve also found having a stats counter installed helps.
I’ve learned that they come from all over the world and different backgrounds and ages.
From Pauline to Helen Gurley Brown: She is an unsung, deliciously sybaritic, and downright cheeky feminist heroine. She will be sorely and dearly missed.
2. Participate in comments and conversations.
One of the best ways of inviting visitors to your site participate in conversations in the comment sections of blogs you like reading. Ever since I started my blog, I’ve learned a great deal in the comments section of articles.
3. Write good content.My highest ranked day was when I wrote a piece about motivation and being a better person.
4. Write from the heart.
Talk as if you were speaking to a few good friends. Write about what you care about people are going to be supportive.
5. Make it a goal.
I have also made it a goal of mine to have a lot of visitors so in my free time, I read as many articles I can on the subject.
6. Use your real voice.
When I write, I like to picture I’m either standing infront of my peers and explaining things simply. Or, I try to imagine I’m writing my sister or mom and telling them how simple it is to make a blog grow.
Wishing you flowers today.
7. Enjoy
You guys might have noticed how much I love to play around with my readers. I enjoy writing. I write to share, to learn and to enrich life and the people around me.
8. Add extra value, then go the extra mile.
The more you give, the more you receive. It’s so easy to get great feedback ~ just give of yourself.
You are one person writing, right? Well, there are lots of people reading so the ratio is just immense. Give of yourself and you get back so much from some many people. I strive to constantly go the extra mile and provide excellent quality in all my endeavors.
9. Be inspiring
You can be inspiring, funny wonderful, full of life. If you don’t believe in yourself, well then I do! You can do it.
We all have the ability to push ourselves to learn and make our lives better. You can do it. I believe in you.
10. Pay it forward.
Without my visitors, I’d just be here talking to my cat. She’s a good listener, however. To pay it forward it’s super simple. Just hit the tweet button if you have twitter, or share on facebook by clicking the link below.
Thanks for visiting. I appreciate your comments.
Thank you for sharing my blog by clicking on these links.
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